Ferrari Mailing List: Re: Im writing a country song.

[red5hilser (red5hilser]

Yea John. I learned that the hard way. I was paying child support even though 
my 17 year-old son had been living with?ME for over a year. He turned 18 on the 
11th of April and I pro-rated the final check. Boy, was she pissed off! <G>

Yer pal, Bubba


-----Original Message-----
From: John Allison johnallison [at] gmail.com
Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.



Also remember that it is better to pay alimony than child support,
because it is tax deductible.


Hang in there dude,

John

On Nov 26, 2007 4:25 PM, Martin Stark <MStark [at] copper.net> wrote:
> All good advice from Charles.  If you want to take a little more
> defensive/aggressive approach take a lesson from Tony Soprano - schedule
> an initial consult with the 5 best divorce attorneys in your area and
> that will deny them to your wife.
>
>
> Dan Warlick wrote:
>
> >Red/Tan............F1
> >
> >Dan Warlick
> >954-725-6331 Office
> >208-493-3529 Fax
> >954-793-3529 Mobile
> >
> >
> >
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: "Charles Perry" <charles [at] carolina-sound.com>
> >To: "Dan Warlick" <edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net>
> >Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 12:56 PM
> >Subject: RE: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >
> >
> >Sorry to hear that - that's got to multiply the hurt to give up a toy
> >you've obviously waited for for years.
> >
> >I don't know anyone in the market at the moment, but I'll keep an ear
> >out.
> >
> >Colors & transmission type?
> >
> >-- charles
> >
> >
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Dan Warlick [mailto:edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net]
> >Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 10:47 AM
> >To: Charles Perry
> >Cc: ferrari [at] ferrarilist.com
> >Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >
> >Thanks again.....
> >I would ask if anyone knows someone looking for a 430 spider. I have an
> >07
> >with under 100 miles on it I need to get rid of now. I'll cheap sell it
> >at
> >$310k. It is brand new and just came in last week. Unfortunately I can
> >not
> >afford to keep it now.
> >
> >Dan Warlick
> >954-725-6331 Office
> >208-493-3529 Fax
> >954-793-3529 Mobile
> >
> >
> >
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: "Charles Perry" <charles [at] carolina-sound.com>
> >To: "Dan Warlick" <edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net>
> >Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 10:15 AM
> >Subject: RE: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >
> >
> >Dan -
> >
> >Very sorry to hear about your troubles. While I haven't had the problem
> >myself, many close friends and employees have and I know it can be
> >disturbing and ugly, especially for someone like you who seems to have
> >led a sane life.
> >
> >If I can be so bold, I'd like to give you a couple of hints based on the
> >experiences of several of my employees, several of whom have spent years
> >and tens of thousands of dollars in the courts fighting custody battles
> >and fabricated allegations on the part of ex-spouses. This is one of
> >those situations where it is imperative that you hope for the best, but
> >plan for the worst. This will sound a little crazy and paranoid, but it
> >is experience talking.
> >
> >Anything you do from this point forward with her or your son needs to be
> >done with another person present who can be your ally in court. You
> >should not see her by yourself, and whenever possible you should have
> >people around when you're with your son. I know this isn't always
> >practical, but fabricated allegations are nearly impossible to defend
> >against (you can't prove a negative), so whenever possible you need to
> >have a corroborating witness on your side. If you have phone
> >conversations with her, record them. A simple $50 tape recorder and
> >interface from Radio Shack can save your behind. To that effect, make
> >sure she can only reach you on a phone you can record - don't take calls
> >from her via cell phone, for example, and maybe get a second recorder
> >for your work phone. If you expect her back at the house for any reason,
> >with or without sheriffs, get a security camera system and a recorder. A
> >$1000 CostCo/Sam's system is fine, which will come with four cameras, a
> >monitor and a digital recorder. If she comes with a tirade, that tape
> >can save you. It can also prove you were not violent with her, which is
> >the most common made-up charge by a woman trying to win custody of her
> >kids.
> >
> >At 18 months you probably don't use it, but if your son spends any time
> >at daycare/pre-school or with babysitters, make sure you explain the
> >situation to them and start cultivating a relationship of trust with
> >them. If called to testify, you want to make sure they are friendly with
> >your case - not hers.
> >
> >Start documenting everything that happens religiously while it is fresh
> >in your mind. I know it's overwhelmingly painful right now, but you need
> >to start keeping a journal with detailed notes of everything starting
> >from Thanksgiving including dates, times, people present (including
> >sheriffs), rough transcript, etc. For things like the recent sheriff's
> >visit, ask them to file a report even if no charges transpire. It will
> >help you later for them (as impartial witnesses) to document the
> >speeding, anger, etc. Again, I hate to say it about a woman that you've
> >loved and that I don't know, but my experience indicates that she is
> >probably capable of some astounding lies and her lawyer will be even
> >moreso, so you need to be prepared to make whatever allegations they
> >dream up in search of custody, alimony, your house & savings, etc. seem
> >like the lies they are.
> >
> >Immediately cancel any credit cards that the two of you share and close
> >and move any bank accounts she has access to. Find the best attorney you
> >can, and to the best of your ability, restrict her financial ability to
> >do the same. Things are very emotional now, but doing these few
> >practical things now, while you're thinking more clearly than her, will
> >be a blessing. Once she starts getting advice from friends and lawyers,
> >it can get uglier in an exponential fashion.
> >
> >I really do wish you the best, and if reconciliation is possible and
> >desirable, I hope it comes to pass. But as I said, as upsetting as it
> >may be, plan for the very worst and work toward the best. It may be a
> >long and bumpy ride, but your List friends are here for you, as I'm sure
> >will be your personal friends and family. Don't be afraid to ask for
> >whatever you might need - people really do want to help.
> >
> >Good luck,
> >
> >-- charles
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Dan Warlick [mailto:edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net]
> >Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 8:42 AM
> >To: Charles Perry
> >Cc: ferrari [at] ferrarilist.com
> >Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >
> >I really appreciate all you guys kind words. It's been a miserable few
> >days
> >other than having my son with me here. At 18 months he really doesn't
> >know
> >what's going on but for his sake and my sanity, the moment the truck was
> >
> >loading I went out and replaced everything she took with the exception
> >of
> >the dining room. You know, his house was a maze and I didn't think his
> >surroundings or paths needed to change. The dining area is now his play
> >area
> >with a ball pit and his electric cars etc... It's going to be an
> >emotional
> >roller coaster ride but I am trying to keep my senses. I do feel
> >somewhat
> >that yesterday I was reduced to the "trailer trash" level as she had
> >three
> >Broward Sheriff deputies show up right before she came to get the little
> >
> >guy. She had called after we had gotten into a spat over the phone
> >regarding
> >her not seeing him for five days. To which I had said something to the
> >effect of "I'm happy to have temporary custody". She called the Sheriff
> >and
> >told them she was here and I would not let her have "her son". They were
> >
> >very nice and I invited them in as she came barreling around the corner
> >at a
> >high rate of speed. There were no charges or even a report filed as they
> >
> >rather saw that she was full of anger and hatred. I just have never had
> >the
> >police called for anything and I can't imagine what the neighbors think.
> >I'm
> >sooo embarrassed. And to think I would still do anything in this world
> >to
> >have my family as a whole again.
> >"The Token List Idiot"
> >Dan Warlick
> >954-725-6331 Office
> >208-493-3529 Fax
> >954-793-3529 Mobile
> >
> >
> >
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: "LarryT" <l02turner [at] comcast.net>
> >To: "Dan Warlick" <edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net>
> >Cc: "The FerrariList" <ferrari [at] ferrarilist.com>
> >Sent: Sunday, November 25, 2007 3:13 PM
> >Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >>Hi Dan,
> >>Cannot imagine what you are going through  - I suspect it's the kind
> >>
> >>
> >of
> >
> >
> >>thing that only those who have experienced it can truely know how &
> >>
> >>
> >what
> >
> >
> >>you feel.
> >>
> >>We'll be praying for you - hang in there - it's sure to get better.
> >>
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> >>
> >>----- Original Message -----
> >>From: "Dan Warlick" <edwf430 [at] bellsouth.net>
> >>To: "Larry Turner" <l02turner [at] comcast.net>
> >>Cc: "The FerrariList" <ferrari [at] ferrarilist.com>
> >>Sent: Saturday, November 24, 2007 12:51 PM
> >>Subject: [Ferrari] Im writing a country song.
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>>I'm writing a country song guys. It starts like this....
> >>>The day before Thanksgiving she backed a moving truck up to my
> >>>house..........I get stuck there a fall into the mode of songs
> >>>
> >>>
> >already
> >
> >
> >>>written. Meatloaf, Sinead O'Connor, Staind,etc.....
> >>>I sincerely hope everyone had a much better holiday than myself.
> >>>
> >>>Dan Warlick
> >>>954-725-6331 Office
> >>>208-493-3529 Fax
> >>>954-793-3529 Mobile
> >>>
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