Ferrari Mailing List: Re: Ferrari Digest, Im writing a country song.

[red5hilser (red5hilser]

At my age ... not losing your dignity means you didn't shit your shorts when 
you check out!

Yer pal, Ferrari Bubba

-----Original Message-----
From: ken rentiers rentiers [at] mac.com
Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Ferrari Digest, Im writing a country song.



Damn straight.

k
On Nov 27, 2007, at 1:29 PM, clyderomero [at] worldnet.att.net wrote:

> Always leave something on the table
> Your dignity
>
> Clyde in MBJ
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: red5hilser [at] aol.com
>
> Date: Tue, 27 Nov 2007 10:17:04
> To:clyde <clyderomero [at] worldnet.att.net>
> Cc:Red5hilser [at] aol.com, ferrari [at] ferrarilist.com
> Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Ferrari Digest, Im writing a country song.
>
>
> Believe me, Uncle Ken 'knoweth of what he spreaks.' All I got when  
> 'The Little Lady' and I finally split up?was what I either found in  
> the trash barrels in front of her (used to be our) house and my  
> clothes, which she dumped out in the middle of the street in front  
> of where I was then living. The net result was instead of my goal  
> of retiring when I reached 50, I retired at 59. Was it worth it?  
> You bet your sweet ass it was! Life has been a real rollercoaster,  
> but it's been a hell of a ride!
>
> Yer pal, Shitbox(TM) Bubba
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: ken rentiers <rentiers [at] mac.com
> Subject: Re: [Ferrari] Ferrari Digest, Im writing a country song.
>
>
>
>
> On Nov 26, 2007, at 8:27 PM, BRIGANDBAR [at] aol.com wrote:
>
>> The immediacy of those  requirements may
>> escape you now, but soon you will be faced with a judicial  system
>> that is
>> punitively prejudiced against fathers in both custodial and
>> financial matters
>
> What Steve said!
>
> Texas is a community property state. She gets the property, you leave
> the community. When it's happening to you, you are not able make
> informed and objective decisions until long after the chips are
> already down. She may have obtained representation before she even
> called the movers. Protect yourself. Get the best damn lawyer you can
> afford. Do whatever he says.
>
> An observation from the trenches: Once the dusts settles somewhat
> attorneys tend to drag things out for years as long as the checks
> keep flowing. Unless you enjoy  repetitive interrogatories and
> constantly producing your books for inspection it is far, far better
> to bite the bullet and settle than to go to trial. Trial is prolonged
> and expensive. My record was five years. You pay the bills for both
> sides.
>
> When the nut-cutting comes, give  her more or less what property she
> wants and walk away. Fights will go on until the lawyers have
> everything, the child is grown and your business is reduced to ashes.
> You still have to make a  living, all she has to do is get divorced.
> If I could change one thing in my past I would have insisted on a
> prenup.
>
> As far as the boy goes the courts will always side with the mother
> unless she can be shown to be unfit, which if she hasn't robbed any
> banks lately you are out of luck. It stinks but in the end that's how
> it always seems to come down.
>
> Forget squabbling, or revenge, Your goal must be to put this behind
> you quickly and expeditiously, with minimum damage, and get on with
> your life. Unexpected separation and divorce is like a death in the
> family, you go through the five stages of grief. Meanwhile, take good
> care of yourself - we have all been there one way or another - it's
> just a part of the mysterious process called 'life'.
>
> http://www.memorialhospital.org/library/general/stress-THE-3.html
>
>
> ken
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